Why won’t he go out with me?
I’ve been talking to alot of my female friends lately and alot of them are in some sort of situation where they really like the guy, but because of reason X, they’re just “dating”. Girls, I’m going to say this once and only once. If a guy doesn’t want to commit 100% to you, it’s because he doesn’t like you enough. That’s it. No other reason.
First of all, the term “dating” is gay. You’re friends or you’re going out. Dating means that either you, the guy, or both, like the other person just enough to bang, but not enough to get involved in a relationship with. So you call each other once in awhile, maybe go to dinner or a movie to put up the facade that you actually care about each other, and then fuck and not see each other for another few weeks.
So anyway, this female friend of mine is “dating” this guy and says that the reason they’re not exclusive is because the guy is “afraid to get hurt”. Bullshit. Another friend told me that the guy she’s seeing “feels that he’s not good enough for her”. Bullshit. And another friend said that her guy told her that he “cares about her so much that he wants to take it slow”. Bullshit.
Ok that last one about taking it slow wouldn’t necessarily be bullshit if the guy wanted to take the whole relationship slowly. 1 month hold hands. 3 months hug. 6 months kiss. Whatever the reason, even though it’s ludicrous, it’s something I can understand. But they’ve known each other for about a month and the guy’s been pumping her like a pogo stick. YET, when she wants to have the DTR talk, Mr. Virtue wants to “take it slow”.
The most dap dap han part (frustrating part) about this whole thing, is that the majority of you girls fall for that crap. They always think that “their guy” is different. Well, he’s not! And then 3 months later, when the guy’s decided he’s had enough free pussy, he’ll go out with some girl that he really likes. And then the girls that got used, run around saying how guys are assholes and players and whatever other shit.
Give me a fucking break. It’s not that the guy was an asshole, it’s that you were a moron.
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because the guy thinks
1: ur ugly
2: ur boring
3: ur too much of a “friend”
it’s only 1 or 2. 3 is also bullshit.
good shit inki
why are you complaining bout things you can get away with? i feel like your giving secrets away, betraying the manhood.
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well put.
dear mr. realtionship guru….or shall i call u mr. abby.
anyway,
so…tell me this,
will a guy give up on a girl(without having tried ANYTHING) simply because she’s beyond his reach? or will he grow a sac and pursue ‘the unobtainable’ even if rejection is a sure probability?
or…does this also fit into the bullshit category?
just wanna leave my 2 cents…
a guy isn’t giving up on a girl if he’s not interested in the first place…plus, no chick is ever ‘unobtainable’. especially after she’s had 3 shots of patron and $50 shoved into her face. hehe
girls don’t like me enough……assholes.
I agree with every sentence.
Love the entry and it’s true. No guy will give you any excuse if he’s really into you. And no girl would either.
dear curious,
if the guy’s really into the girl, he’ll go for her no matter how many times he’s rejected and how far out of his reach she may be. but for a guy to go through all that shit, the girl better be one hell of a catch.
I think i stood up from my chair and clapped after reading this entry. its soooo true! he’s “just not that into you”.
answer this. why are guys so afraid of commitment? is it because he’s a guy? or is it the girl?
but at least those girls are getting dates. thats one more date than what i’m getting.